There is no doubt that you will sense something is different long before he tells you that he wants you out of his life. You may not be able to put your finger on what it is but if you look closely, there will be some clues. Knowing the cause may not help you save your relationship. But at least it may help you feel better about why it's happened because it may have very little to do with you as a woman and a lot to do with him.

Here are some of the real truths.

1. He's not happy with his life. You may be caught in the crosshairs here and be suffering the consequences of how things are going for him in general in his life. Has he gone through a lot of negative stuff lately? It could be things like more pressure at work, hating his job but knowing he's stuck, problems with a family member, a close friend moving away, his landlord hassling him, car trouble, too many bills to pay and not enough money coming in. When too much gets piled on, he wants everything to change so he can get rid of the pain. Unfortunately, you have become just one more thing to deal with.

2. He's not able to share his feelings. As women, it's natural to want to talk things out and unburden ourselves when we are having problems or feeling down. Your natural inclination is to reach out and want to help your man when he's feeling down. But men often react to problems differently. They keep everything inside and push away anyone who tries to get in. If you keep at him, he's going to feel attacked rather than supported. The more you ask him what's wrong, the less he wants to talk. In the end, all he wants is to be left alone.

3. He feels like he's failing you. He went into the relationship with high hopes and lots of dreams. But if he isn't accomplishing what he set out to accomplish, this is going to be a real blow to his self-esteem. Men are still old-fashioned enough to want to be able to support their woman. Her income will help but he feels that he should be the main earner. If he doesn't see that happening, he is going to feel like a big failure and make him feel worse about himself. Every time he sees you he'll have that idea in his mind. To ease the pain, he may break it off with you.

These are only a few of the reasons why he wants you out of his life. As you can see, in these cases, it's not your fault. Would you like some help figuring out how to draw him back to you? Then I'd love to help you

There is always a huge debate surrounding the issue of monogamy and whether it is part of human nature. Monogamy is what we are taught from when we are young and most people try to stick to the society values. However, it is not always that you will find people who agree with monogamy. Some believe that it is against the human basic biology. Most of those who think in this line are men since they feel that they were naturally created to have multiple partners.

Even though most try their best to be monogamous, given a chance they would rather spread the natural seed given free to them which of course translates to having multiple partners at the same time. Most women however hate the idea of sharing their men with other women and feel monogamy is the way to go and it is how things ought to be. They love a quiet life to love their husbands and nurture children.

Monogamy has taken a turn and men are falling more and more into polygamy and affairs. On the other hand, women are also standing up for their rights and no longer watch as their husbands have affairs. They will either want a divorce or also get into the affairs for equality. It is becoming more and more evident that monogamy might not be part of the human nature even though there are those who try and make it. The cultural ideals have shifted and have also evolved dramatically with time making all the changes.

Today, more people especially the young are staying away from monogamy and a few factors are to blame for the change of gear. They include religion decline and lack of communication amongst the couples. This has in turn led to higher numbers of people getting divorced every day hence monogamy has slowly faded. Monogamy can work if only both parties are willing to make it work by being honest and open with their feelings and expectations.

Even though it has become clear that human beings are not naturally monogamous, it does not rule out the fact that it is something that has worked and still does work for many. It is not such a bad thing to have someone who loves you all to yourself sharing everything together and knowing that it is only you in their lives. Monogamy can be as sweet as we want it to be.